Love Isn’t Going Through Their Phone
There are many,many things that love is. There are arguably many more things that love is not. If your partner finds the need to go through your cell phone, that isn’t love. Quite simply, that is mistrust. It doesn’t matter if he or she tells you they did or even if you allow them to go through your phone. The fact remains that it is your personal space and they are invading it. They have no reason to go through your cell phone.
In today’s world, our cell phone holds our world: our list of most everyone we know and their contact information, work e-mails that your boss most definitely doesn’t want non-employees reading, private thoughts and messages from close friends and other loved ones that are trusting that their words are going to you and you alone. In short, our cell phones are deeply personal devices that contain our world.
When a partner goes through your cell phone, with our without your knowledge, they may give numerous reasons that they needed to. Not one of those reasons is good enough. The bottom line is, they do not trust you and if they don’t trust you, there is not point in being in the relationship. Without trust, their is no relationship.
